I'm being too judgmental.
I'm being over sensitive to what people thinks about me.

I've realised these long ago, but never thought i'd reflect on it.

So here's the story, I'm now attached to a mentor for clinic. I've heard a few negative comments about his adjustment skills, so here I am worrying if he's well liked by his peers(cause being his mentee it might affect me a little).
While I'm worrying, I'm thinking to myself, does it really matter what others think of him, of me? Why am I asking people what kind of a person he's like, when I've not even work with him yet. Shouldn't I make my own judgement instead of hear-say?

PS: from feedback, I shall clarify that I don't often ask others what they think of others. LOL. But because I'd have to work with this person on a 1 to 1 basis and I'm kinda jittery about it.

I'm not perfect, so what rights do I have to judge and criticise others.

I never mix well, I love my comfort zone and I tend to only mix with people of the same race regardless of where they come from . I don't make friends easily, I try to when I'm in a new environment, but once I've moulded myself into the circle I cling on to it. If all others fail, I learn to be independant.

I need to learn and it shall be my first resolution after 21 years.

1. to be less judgmental
2. to listen
3. to disregard what people might think as long as it's right
4. to forgive daily
5. to forget silly things daily
6. to have more patience and be more tolerant