science and love
3rd july 06
IT'S THE 3RD.
a short note, not very short though. had my chemistry test this morning. was late. hai. blame myself for not concentrating the past 2 days. simply wasted my weekends. hopefully pray hard that i can do well. my physic is dropping to a B, so don't wish for it to be the same for chem. arghh. i literally anyhow write for the open ended answers and i didn't have time to finish the last one. i needed more time to analyse it, damn. pray hard for me everyone.

topic of the day.
i was watching this 'movie' during physic lesson about how scientist like albert einsten discover so many wonderful things, it shows a part about constant mass. the law of conservation of mass, which means that no mass is lose in a reaction.
and i don't know why i thought about love when i recall the movie. 'chemistry', a kind of science. chemical reaction occurs when people fall in love. was thinking how to link this to the conservation of mass. deduce 2 answers.

hypothesis: love is a reaction, there is reactants and products, like some reactions, love can have different products form.

love1 + love2 <=> 2love + energy
that's the first equation for love.
as the reaction goes people start to love each other more, because the product will be 2love. if more reactants are added, more love will be produced, so the more love you add into your relationship, the more love you get from it. however, the reaction have to come to an equilibrium, the reverse reaction have to occur, so the 2 love will also react to form love1 and love2. when you love someone you can't always expect more love to be 'produce' all the time. there are always reverse reaction. however, according to this equation, the more love you put in, there will always be more product form even though there is reverse reaction where the product will still increase as an equilibrium have to be re-establish.

the reaction in the beginning of a relationship is always very fast as there is a high concentration of the reactants, but the reaction will gradually decrease as the concentration of reactants decreases and concentration of product increases.

again using the equation above.
when bonds are breaking, it is a exothermic reaction and when bonds are forming it is an endothermic reaction. the love reaction is a exothermic reaction as 2 particles are bonding to form a molecue. energy is released to the surronding, so after some time you will feel very tired about this relationship. this is the time to do something to replenish the energy for both, try doing something to increase the energy level, for the reaction, we can increase the temperature. the replenishing of energy have to be continuos, in the instance of absence of energy, and no one making any effots to replenish it, the reaction will stop. if you are lucky the reaction will stay at equilibrium, if not, the whole reaction will ceased totally.

the equalibrium theory, when no more love (reactants) is put in, the reaction will come to an equalibrium, which means the relationship will remain stagnant. like why you see some old couples holding hands crossing the road, shopping, and some are just like 'housemates'. the old couples holding hands are those that have done the experiment correctly, give it the right temperature, while the ones that have become housemates are the ones that have used up their energy and neither is bothered to refill them.

catalyse(something that speeds up the reaction but is not permanently consume in the reaction)
never use a catalyst in the love equation. catalyst help speed up the reaction, but when the catalyse is taken away, the reaction returns to the usual rate again. using a catalyst is never a fast road, a catalyst might be good for a reaction that have just started, but after reacting for some time, the reaction should be left to react at its own rate. other then because of high concentration of reactants, a fast forward reaction when the reaction first begin could be due to addition of catalyst.

there is only a need of one mole of love1 and one mole of love2 to react. if more love1 or love2 is added, there will be excess of it. although this does not affect the reaction, the reaction is still not complete. in a relationship, both parties have to put in the right amount of love, although a little excess from one party happens most of the time, but do not let it exit an amount where you are unable to cope with. this little excess is manageble if both parties are still putting in love, excess when only one party is putting in love is elaborated below and is strongly not encouraged.

the second reaction
love + love -> hatred
notice that this reaction does not have a reverse reaction from the single arrow? although every reaction is thought to have some reverse reaction, some reaction goes to great extend of completion that the little reverse reaction is ignore. explaning it in love term, when the amount of love that is put in is high, the amount of hatred when things turn sour also increase. like the very little reverse reaction, some hatred can turn back into love, but the percentage of this happening is so much lesser then the forward reaction. that's why many people can't be friends after a relationship is over, so count yourselve lucky to have a friend that is your previous partner. never try to do things to extend, when the relationship is already turning sour, by adding more love to it, more hatred will be 'produce'. when the other party is not adding more love, do not continue to add yours, this will cause an excess in your love or worst will cause the very little love the other party have for you to 'react' into hatred. although trying to salvage the relationship is encourage but please don't do it overboard.

an equalibrium always have to be establish in a reaction, even after puting in more reactants the reaction will still come to an equlibrium although the amount of reactants and product have increase. in every relationship a equilibrium also need to be establish.

it's very hard to maintain a relationship, you have to put int he right amount of love so that it will not be in excess, you have to increase the temperature occasionally so that the reaction have enough energy to continue etc. so be content if you have a blissful relationship. never ask for too much or compare it with others. every reaction react at a different rate. some use one mole each of love some use 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 mole and so on.

there are lots more to prove from the science theory. all theory are what i had for test today just that it's not about love. hahahaa. although the paragraphing in the essay is not that good but hopefully everyone understand. hahaa. i took almost 2 hours to do it. actually was suppose to write like the forst paragraph only, but more came flowing into my mind as i wrote.

love is magical.

loved
JiaP ei