Reflections. Probably many of us will reflect and think after we read those posts. Somehow i just agree much with what Junchin has to say.

I hate to admit but in one way or another, this 'supposed' bunch of good friends somewhat really turn into an organistion. You organise this. You contact them. You go ask them when they are avalable so we could decide on a date where most of us could make it. Maybe this 'organisation' is a much friendlier one cos we hope everyone could make it to the gathering. Quoted from Jiapei's latest entry "please be considerate for the organisers as well". No offence! But some of us actaully become organisers. Aint we a bunch of buddies? Good friends?

Also, how many of us initiate events? I can say it's always those few. What about the rest? Even calling to ask to meet for dinner at plaza or something is so difficult? We used to play badminton, dont we? Even during the hectic and stressful period before the O levels, we are still willing to fork out the time to enjoy. We played like almost five days every week then. How much i missed. We used to play captain's ball at my void deck. We used to play basketball near sanli's place and all. We used to have steamboat at each other's place so often. Even it's 'plain water' soup, we still think it's nice and enjoyable. We used to have so many BBQs. We used to play risk together. We used to do so many things together. But sad to say, no longer now..............cos we USED TO~

Im not sure of what the girls thought. Junchin once mentioned to me that we only meet up when there's an occasion (e.g. Someone's birthday). It's only until then that it struck me. He asked me to compare my poly friends with you people. Unless there's someone's birthday, if not, i guess we dont even bother to meet up. I fear, one day we will just forget each other's birthday, and there's no longer any REASON for us to meet up. We live so near to each other, it's not as if we are miles apart. Is it that hard? Even with a given REASON to meet up, so few people turn up sometimes. And we have to sort of 'beg'. WHY? Cos more people will turn up and it dont look pathetic for the birthday boy/girl for too less people were there to celebrate. But then again, those who are sincere to be there to celebrate and enjoy, it's the best. Dont come unwillingly cos quantity dont matter actually. Its the heart ("v")

Now we all are on a separate paths. We do have other commitments. But is this an excuse to all this changes. (at least, a no to me). If any of you guys think that it is, then i dont have much to say.

Some of us complain and complain, comment and comment. We expressed it all here. Those who read, do we reflect and think? Probably yes, but after that we just forget about everything and thought everything is fine. We go on. And it's back to square one. The same problem surface. The same cycle goes on and on.

I may be wrong in my opinions. Maybe you guys have a different perception. Talk to me. Im fine with it.

And of cos, this post is not meant to be offensive.





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