distance
29th may 06
17:01
sl's dating post shall be postponed until my exams finishes.

those who used to say that they can have a balance between friends and partners. do you dare say you still can now? i doubt so. even jiemin who used to say that we sure confidence have concede defeat. calin too, even during her relationship she make out a balance, but as time pass i guess it is really hard. (lin: this e.g. got nothing to do with this afternoons conversation)
this is not something bad, its natural, being the friends, we just have to get used to it. there is nothing we can do, unless you going to seperate the both of them. *i am not evil*

everyone is not being participative recently or rather for the past yr. this includes both boys and girls. maybe everyone should try harder. don't tell me there isn't any use, because i dont see anyone putting in any effort. only after you try then you come and tell me that. don't tell me you have tried but it doesnt work, because i have not seen you try. so don't come and bullshit or cowshit.
during an outing you may find it bothersome to go participate, esp something that you don't like to do, but you never try. things may turn out differently. yh didn't know how to play badminton, but after the many sessions at least she is willing to pick up the racket. esp when its a grp gathering, or the more you should try and participate or at least don't go and do your own stuff, be there and laugh together. (for this i admit i am guity of it, wahhaa, but at least i don't walk away and do my own things.)

please be considerate for the organisers as well, be appreciative. i don't need you to say thank you, but at least try your best in help. help as in at least give a sure answer. don't give things like i don't know, or even worst, until the day itself then you say you can't come. please pay your money on time, esp the guys, whahaa, if everyone were to tell the organiser that he/she will play later, that means the organiser have to fork out all the money 1st? you should be the one to at least ask how much, or initiate to pay, but in the end when ppl are you people for money you are so reluctant to give. if you don't have the money, borrow from your friends or at least let the person know that you are unable to pay today and will pay by when. don't let people ask you for money then you say you can't, worst is after people have asked you several times for it. another thing is, its hard to gather everyone and even harder to accomodate to everyone, this i think there is a fair share in boys and girls. so when something is decided, you can ask for a change, but if there is no choice please do not whine or threaten not to come, this is the worst behaviour ever.
all in all, treasure each other and you will not find it hard to accomplish what i said.

my conclusion, girls, pls be more participative will you and guys pls pay up on time. although these are not the only things but everyone just have to put in effort ba. we need to hands to clap. if the guys or the girls are not doing well in certain things, both party are at fault, although the degree or fault varies.

if you think this post is not fair, and thinks that i am bias, too bad, i am a girl. whahaa. because i know little of what the guys are unhappy about. perhaps we should have a mass meeting like once a yr and discuss what we are unhappy about each other? so if you want to rebuke or have anything to share or complain. post a comment, tag or come tell me. don't always stay behind and complain, things will never change whining and complaining at the back.

ps. i am not being fierce throughout the whole post, this is a friendly post.

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JIa PEI