applause
2 jan 06
23:09
i very very muc agree to some part of jm's post.. y cant everyone call 1 instead of 1 call every.. its really tiring.. next time maybe those who have not tried u can try calling.. ppl give cold shoulders.. ask so many Q liao don't go.. tell ask what to do.. complain.. enough ppl.. enough is enough.. initiative is what we all want.. maybe u will find it weird to call another person but then plz.. at least when we ask u.. try to tell us what u wan.. tell ask what time u will arrive or approx what time u will arrive.. tell us straight if u are coming or not.. don't make us call and call.. like some naggy old ah mah.. its tiring to be naggy ok.. and its cost $$.. hahaa.. INITIATIVE.. ADAPTING.. and not want the person to change.. this 2 weirds.. very impt to keep everything together.. i was telling jc.. maybe we 2 can bring everyone back together again.. but then he said we need everyone effort.. and not me and him only.. very very very true.. we can only help organise things.. but weather u all participate or be enthu in it, its up to everyone..
ok.. lets say for the yr end gathering.. those who were not here have their own stuff.. these ppl are not to be blame.. for those who are there.. i think everyone feel it.. that the guys and gals are not doing things together any more.. everyone have to initiate.. sometimes we may not like certain things but it is all abt give and take.. i think this part the gals and guys have to put in some effort.. i think for guys ct and jc are doing quite ok.. the gals have to work slightly harder.. hehe.. i know its hard to do something that u don't like.. i think calin is sort of on par with ct and jc also.. more giving..
i always feel proud that we have a big grp.. but with many ppl.. its harder to manage.. hehe.. like big company also hard to manage..
i think we get too used to each other that we took each other for granted.. hehe.. and its usually like tt.. even for families and partners..
ppl are tired of begging u to go.. so plz.. hehee.
jm gave a very nice idea.. lets go bai tai sui together.. hehe.. i think most of us can bai.. or rather all of us? yupx..
oh ya.. i think we can make a link calling.. e.g. i call calin, she call yuhui then yh cal jm.. its easier this way.. next outing maybe we can discuss this.. but to put this into action we need everyones help okie?
lurve
Pei (jm u nv sigh off)