growing up..
7.32
18th sept
zhong qiu jie kuai le to everyone..jus finished my breakfast.. tuna bread and soup..
was reading everyones blog while having breakfast.. then suddenly think of every1 growing up.. thinking.. we would not be the same, one day we would stop playing candles, so if we were to meet up during mid autum festival, what should we do? i was thinking maybe i can play candles alone, but it woould feel weird having an adult playing candles isnt it? wahahaa.. something from jucino's blog which i find it quite... meaningfull? interesting? yupx.. he was saying he and his friend have changed but they adapted to each others changing.. i think its really true, it is impossible to stay stagnant.. always remaining in 2e1 2002.. we have passed that stage we have fin our O's.. we have all go to diff direction.. some to the poly, j'c, army, working.. i guess many of the conflicts we have is due to the fact that we cannot adapt to the other partys' changes.. we cannot accept the fact that she/he is not the she/he we knew.. i guess i am the slowest to accept the fact that every1 have to grow up, everyone have to have their own life one day.. maybe everyone changes differently.. but u stil change, regardless of slow or fast, u stil change.. yeap.. everyone starting to grow everyone starting to be more matured in their thinking.. thus less conflict.. but is less conflict a gd sign or a bad one.. we used to be dissatisfied with another person because we care for the person, because we didnt want to lose the person, because we want she/he to continue to be part of us.. but now.. perhaps its a sign that every have matues, perhaps......................
something happened ytd tt cause u guys couldnt celeb together.. i dont know what happen, but today is the actual day.. y not do it today?
lurve
pei